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Thanks for stopping by my blog. Heart Soul Tummy is a blog hopefully to encourage, inspire, and make you smile. It is a little bit of everything that makes me happy! I am new to this, so don't judge me too much on my blogger skills, or lack there of.

Tuesday, May 28, 2013

Work-At-Home Mom a.k.a WAHM

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Ever since Chip was born in December of 2010, I knew I wanted to be at home. It was so hard to leave him after my maternity leave to return to finish the school year at Salina Central High School. After that school year, my husband was promoted to district manager with Propane Central. This new job relocated us to Topeka, Kansas. I got a job, because there was still not quite enough money to keep us out of poverty if I stopped teaching to become a stay-at-home mom. I resolved that this would be fine. I could do it.

I was hired to work at Washburn Rural Middle School.  I worked there two school years, and met some great friends in the process. (God knows what He is doing; sometimes it takes me a minute to believe Him but it all works out.) Working the past two years afforded me great friends, memorable students, and it gave Chip the opportunity to make great friends and memories at his in-home daycare. Our daycare provider, Cathy or “Khaki” as Chip calls her, was a great mentor for Chip. She taught him manners, sharing, cleaning up after making messes, and how to trust other adults. I wouldn’t trade those years of learning for anything.

However, the desire to be a stay-at-home mom was rekindled the moment I discovered I was pregnant with Calla. I began to bring it up to Keith, and he wanted to make sure we prayed about it and did everything possible to make sure we could afford to do it. So I got busy looking into options. I applied for an online teaching job with K12. This opportunity had Keith excited, but it almost seemed too perfect. A job I love to do, that I went to school for can be done at home! And, I can be with my kids? It was a “have your cake and eat it too scenario.” I thought, “There’s no way. This is too perfect.” I had applied previously with this company too, after Chip was born, but obviously didn’t have any luck. I began to feel discouraged with this job option once again when I heard nothing. So, I pursued other avenues. I went through all the steps to get our home certified to do an in-home daycare. This wouldn’t be ideal, as it is not guaranteed income, but it would allow me to help provide good care for families, give Chip some playtime with others, and my family some added income. Before Calla was born, and the deal was sealed on the daycare, I received an email from Manhattan-Ogden school district. They were looking for an English teacher, immediately. I was 8-months pregnant (they would never hire me, I thought) but I interviewed for the job anyway, and two weeks later was filling out papers for HR.

I began to teach a freshman English course in February. I continued to teach during my maternity leave. (Yes that was a daunting task. But I made it). I guess I did something right, because I was asked to teach full-time (which means 5 live hours of teaching a week) for a little less pay then I make at my current “brick and mortar” teaching job.  I am just simply amazed at the doors that opened, and at the doors that were so easily closed. God is great, and He does answer prayers. Truly, this was all Him. I am excited to see what this new career opportunity has in store for me as a professional, as a mom, and as a wife. I may not be your traditional stay-at-home mom. I still have a career that I love, but I will be a work-at-home mom. I feel that this could turn out to be the best of both worlds. I get to be with my kids every moment of their little lives, all while doing what I was born to do, which is teach. I will keep you posted.

Sunday, May 5, 2013

Calla Lane

In the time since I last posted our nameless baby was born. We finally decided on a name. Calla Lane. Calla Lilies are my favorite flower and Calla also means "beauty" in Greek. Lane, as you know from a previous post, is my great-grandmother's maiden name. There you go. This poor girl will have a story to tell about how many names she had before she was born. It was quite insane. (Sorry Calla).
Now, some people are interested in the "birth story." If you are not one of these people, don't read on. But if you are... well here you go.
Saturday, March 2nd, Keith got off of work from the base. He had drill that weekend. We decided it would be fun to go to the mall to buy a new PJ set for the hospital, and I was hoping the walk around the mall would help kick-start labor (and it did). We got home, put our son to bed, and got ready for bed ourselves. My husband jokingly said, "You are having this baby tonight." I laughed and said "No way." At this point in pregnancy, it felt like the baby would NEVER come. I was doubtful and thought I would just be pregnant forever. Well, about an hour after heading to bed... around midnight... I had some light cramping. Nothing huge. I went and "Googled" my symptoms because I didn't know what to expect. With Chip, I was induced so I didn't know what labor felt like when it started on its own. The pain got a bit stronger, and that's when I called the hospital staff. They said it sounds like labor but to be sure I needed to time them for about an hour, and if they were regular then I could go ahead and come in. I went and woke up Keith, who was only pretending to sleep. I think he was freaking out. Actually, I am sure of it. We both were a little nervous and not quite sure this was really happening. It was close to 2 AM. We called his mother, Nita, to come stay at the house with Chip while we went to the hospital to have our baby girl. When we got to the hospital, I had to stop several times to endure the contractions... there was no doubt that this was labor. The security officer at the hospital took one look at me and said, "No need to sign in, just go." He clearly didn't want to have to deliver a baby. They admitted us at Stormont-Vail birthing center here in Topeka, KS. I spent several hours in the triage room because they wanted to make certain I was in active labor. Well, I was and it didn't take long. By the time they got me to the birthing room I was 6 cm and progressing fast. I started to push around 8 cm... not because the doctor told me too but because my body said too. It was just too hard not too. Sorry doc. I pushed a few times before my doctor, Dr. Teply, arrived for the final push. With that last push, our baby girl arrived in this world. She was 7 lbs of perfection. Seriously. Instantly my heart was full of love for her and even more so for her father, Keith. He was amazing during the birth. I had no pain medicine because I am "weird" like that. It was an amazing experience. One worth doing again, just not anytime soon. ;)

Calla Lane Hill

Born at 7:31 AM on March 3, 2013

7lbs, 20 inches long.