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Thanks for stopping by my blog. Heart Soul Tummy is a blog hopefully to encourage, inspire, and make you smile. It is a little bit of everything that makes me happy! I am new to this, so don't judge me too much on my blogger skills, or lack there of.

Saturday, June 22, 2013

Blog EVERYDAY in July


Sooo… I took on a challenge to blog EVERYDAY in July. Each day has a different prompt.
I am not sure how I feel about this, but I am excited because I will be doing it with friends. Here goes it. 

July 1st will be the very first post… it is my life story. Be prepared.


Thank you to Randi, author of Bring on the New ( http://bring-on-the-new.blogspot.com)

See you in July!


Tuesday, May 28, 2013

Work-At-Home Mom a.k.a WAHM

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Ever since Chip was born in December of 2010, I knew I wanted to be at home. It was so hard to leave him after my maternity leave to return to finish the school year at Salina Central High School. After that school year, my husband was promoted to district manager with Propane Central. This new job relocated us to Topeka, Kansas. I got a job, because there was still not quite enough money to keep us out of poverty if I stopped teaching to become a stay-at-home mom. I resolved that this would be fine. I could do it.

I was hired to work at Washburn Rural Middle School.  I worked there two school years, and met some great friends in the process. (God knows what He is doing; sometimes it takes me a minute to believe Him but it all works out.) Working the past two years afforded me great friends, memorable students, and it gave Chip the opportunity to make great friends and memories at his in-home daycare. Our daycare provider, Cathy or “Khaki” as Chip calls her, was a great mentor for Chip. She taught him manners, sharing, cleaning up after making messes, and how to trust other adults. I wouldn’t trade those years of learning for anything.

However, the desire to be a stay-at-home mom was rekindled the moment I discovered I was pregnant with Calla. I began to bring it up to Keith, and he wanted to make sure we prayed about it and did everything possible to make sure we could afford to do it. So I got busy looking into options. I applied for an online teaching job with K12. This opportunity had Keith excited, but it almost seemed too perfect. A job I love to do, that I went to school for can be done at home! And, I can be with my kids? It was a “have your cake and eat it too scenario.” I thought, “There’s no way. This is too perfect.” I had applied previously with this company too, after Chip was born, but obviously didn’t have any luck. I began to feel discouraged with this job option once again when I heard nothing. So, I pursued other avenues. I went through all the steps to get our home certified to do an in-home daycare. This wouldn’t be ideal, as it is not guaranteed income, but it would allow me to help provide good care for families, give Chip some playtime with others, and my family some added income. Before Calla was born, and the deal was sealed on the daycare, I received an email from Manhattan-Ogden school district. They were looking for an English teacher, immediately. I was 8-months pregnant (they would never hire me, I thought) but I interviewed for the job anyway, and two weeks later was filling out papers for HR.

I began to teach a freshman English course in February. I continued to teach during my maternity leave. (Yes that was a daunting task. But I made it). I guess I did something right, because I was asked to teach full-time (which means 5 live hours of teaching a week) for a little less pay then I make at my current “brick and mortar” teaching job.  I am just simply amazed at the doors that opened, and at the doors that were so easily closed. God is great, and He does answer prayers. Truly, this was all Him. I am excited to see what this new career opportunity has in store for me as a professional, as a mom, and as a wife. I may not be your traditional stay-at-home mom. I still have a career that I love, but I will be a work-at-home mom. I feel that this could turn out to be the best of both worlds. I get to be with my kids every moment of their little lives, all while doing what I was born to do, which is teach. I will keep you posted.

Sunday, May 5, 2013

Calla Lane

In the time since I last posted our nameless baby was born. We finally decided on a name. Calla Lane. Calla Lilies are my favorite flower and Calla also means "beauty" in Greek. Lane, as you know from a previous post, is my great-grandmother's maiden name. There you go. This poor girl will have a story to tell about how many names she had before she was born. It was quite insane. (Sorry Calla).
Now, some people are interested in the "birth story." If you are not one of these people, don't read on. But if you are... well here you go.
Saturday, March 2nd, Keith got off of work from the base. He had drill that weekend. We decided it would be fun to go to the mall to buy a new PJ set for the hospital, and I was hoping the walk around the mall would help kick-start labor (and it did). We got home, put our son to bed, and got ready for bed ourselves. My husband jokingly said, "You are having this baby tonight." I laughed and said "No way." At this point in pregnancy, it felt like the baby would NEVER come. I was doubtful and thought I would just be pregnant forever. Well, about an hour after heading to bed... around midnight... I had some light cramping. Nothing huge. I went and "Googled" my symptoms because I didn't know what to expect. With Chip, I was induced so I didn't know what labor felt like when it started on its own. The pain got a bit stronger, and that's when I called the hospital staff. They said it sounds like labor but to be sure I needed to time them for about an hour, and if they were regular then I could go ahead and come in. I went and woke up Keith, who was only pretending to sleep. I think he was freaking out. Actually, I am sure of it. We both were a little nervous and not quite sure this was really happening. It was close to 2 AM. We called his mother, Nita, to come stay at the house with Chip while we went to the hospital to have our baby girl. When we got to the hospital, I had to stop several times to endure the contractions... there was no doubt that this was labor. The security officer at the hospital took one look at me and said, "No need to sign in, just go." He clearly didn't want to have to deliver a baby. They admitted us at Stormont-Vail birthing center here in Topeka, KS. I spent several hours in the triage room because they wanted to make certain I was in active labor. Well, I was and it didn't take long. By the time they got me to the birthing room I was 6 cm and progressing fast. I started to push around 8 cm... not because the doctor told me too but because my body said too. It was just too hard not too. Sorry doc. I pushed a few times before my doctor, Dr. Teply, arrived for the final push. With that last push, our baby girl arrived in this world. She was 7 lbs of perfection. Seriously. Instantly my heart was full of love for her and even more so for her father, Keith. He was amazing during the birth. I had no pain medicine because I am "weird" like that. It was an amazing experience. One worth doing again, just not anytime soon. ;)

Calla Lane Hill

Born at 7:31 AM on March 3, 2013

7lbs, 20 inches long.




Saturday, January 12, 2013

No Name

Well, the baby has no name. We decided Lane was a great middle name. We just weren't sure about it, at last, as a first name. Why is naming little girls so hard? Is it because every girl name I hear reminds me of someone I have known or have taught? Charles had his name upon conception. Charles was a part of our planning when we dated. That was the name of our son without a doubt. But a girl? We had a name (which I won't reveal right now) but now Keith has doubts. So, I guess we will have a short list of names and just have to see her when she arrives. Can't anything be easy these days? Apparently not. I am sorry to be so fickle, but a name is a big deal! So here's to making a list. Checking it twice. Feel free to toss out suggestions, we may need them. Serious. Like really serious.
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Tuesday, January 1, 2013

New Year- 2013

Well the world didn't end in 2012. So here we are, 2013, and so many things to be excited about. Keith and I will be expecting our second child, our first girl, in March. We have decided to name her Lane Madison. Not to be called Laney. Lane is my great-grandmother's maiden name. It is simple and sweet. My great-grandmother passed away a few years ago, but still managed to get me a present this Christmas. Let me explain. This Christmas, my grandmother, Meme, gave me a pillow that my great grandmother, Vera, had cross-stiched for me. She had found it with some of my her things and it had a note attached that read, "Make this into a pillow for Candice." Special, Right? The pillow has a girl, resembling Bo-Peep, and she has blue eyes (just like me). It is going to go in Lane's room for sure. Such sweet memories.
There is so much to look forward too in the coming year. I am excited to get started on my New Year's Resolutions. They are as follows:
1. Run a half-marathon
2. Get out of pesky credit card debt using the Money Map by Crown Financial. We have made a pretty good dent in our small but annoying debt. Here's to getting it GONE.
3. Be in God's word DAILY. I am reading the whole Bible in the coming year. This will be the second time through. This time, studying the commentary also. (I actually started this after talking with my cousin, Mike, at Christmas. It has been great so far, and I feel that I am actually going to learn a lot.)

That is it.
image from: christianfilingcabinet.com
This is the book we are using to get out of debt. Such a GREAT resource.
Highly recommended.

I hope that the new year brings new challenges with sweeter rewards. Happy New Year.

Sunday, April 8, 2012

Shhh... The power of silence

I have to say after reading this chapter on silence I was so convicted I cried. It is embarrassing to admit, but I will. I like to be right. I like to share my opinion. I like to talk and be the center of attention. I have a problem with listening before speaking. As the author put it I have a “haughty tinge” in my heart; this need to share my every thought. There is great power in silence. There is power in knowing when to speak, and when to be quiet. I need to listen.The best gift you can give someone is your time. To REALLY listen says a lot. What we say by not listening says a lot about us. 

It is not enough to say “I am going to watch what I say.” This is a heart issue. “For the abundance of the heart [the] mouth speaks (Luke 6:45 AMP)
I need to change the foundation. My heart. Just as the rudder steers a ship, so the tongue steers the body. To control your tongue is to have control of your own body (James 3:2). For out of the mouth the heart speaks. 

I am praying for God to change my heart. To rid my need to speak every thought. The need to be right and make sure everyone knows how right I am. I want to be a listener. I want to speak after considering what I have heard so that my words edify, nourish, and benefit others. I pray that the Lord will change my heart’s haughty tendency, and that I may be more prudent and purposeful. I don’t need everyone to know I am right when it really doesn’t matter. That is not to say I won’t speak up for something, but I will be more discerning. Knowing when to speak, or to hold my tongue. I resolve to listen: contemplating, weighing, and waiting. This is wisdom. This is power. 

I am so humbled to know that God loves me despite my flaws, and is patient with me as I strive to be more like Him. Thank you, Lord.

“Do nothing out of rivalry or conceit, but in humility consider others as more important than yourselves. Everyone should look out not only for [their] own interests, but also for the  interests of others” (Philippians 2:3-4).
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Monday, April 2, 2012

Great Meal Planning App

"Food on the Table" might just be the best app and online meal planning source. I have made 4 recipes from it so far, and let me just say, they were awesome. Almost all of them are simple ingredients, healthy, and yummy!! I will be posting recipes I try, and I will let you know how they turn out. I just want to tell you now so you can get started on the best app ever!

By the way (BTDub), it will plan your meals around your local store sales. Say chicken breasts are on sale at Hy-Vee, it will give you lots of easy recipes for chicken breasts. What? How cool is that? It saves money by using sales to plan your meals. I am in love!! Check it out.

www.foodonthetable.com